Late night, I was shocked by a text alert from my cell phone. It was from my best friend, she told me that she had a problem to share with me. I said OK, then she told long and sad stories. I put her in calm condition first, so that she can talk to me freely. The story more or less about her attitude to make friends with other people. Someone already tried to become her best friend, likely it will become bro-sis relationship kind of thing. My friend told me that the guy whom eager to share a relationship with her already give up. I said, what is the matter with him or you, did you smell nasty or something, so the guy already give up with you. Suddenly my friend start to laugh and talk to me freely, she said that she tried at her best to change her attitude, way of talking/communicate, but it return to zero. The guy think my friend is an “alligator”, not easily make friend with other, probably I may say “Iceberg Type”. Now, my friend try to mend her relationship with other, but she said, she didn’t like the way she change drastically. Can you take the moral of the stories ? Good, COMMUNICATION. Yes, my dear Sir or Madam, once again I said COMMUNICATION. Many people failed in their life because of this matter. We know that everybody was born in this world bring its various habit and very unique each other. In the other word, everybody is different. So, what’s the linkage between communication and people ? Communication with one person is different with other person, simple isn’t it ? Though we’ve our own faith and norms in our life, but try to lessen the burden of these matters. People will accept us if we’re clear minded and open hearted to them. Just don’t be afraid to change sometimes, because it will enrich our mental exploration. People will grow or change sometimes, but are we ready for that ? It depends on us. As long as the sun still shine upon us, there’s hope to change. Just be YOU but DON’T BE AFRAID to CHANGE !!
Filed under: September 2008
