
LOVE AND HATE
November 6, 2008Did you ever feel that you’re so angry and won’t make any relationship any more with someone/somebody? Or maybe, in contrary, did you ever feel so happy and comfortable in making relationship with someone/somebody, so that, if possible, you’ll never lose his/her any more? From the title that I write this time, I’m going to share you my view about love and hate. Love for me is same like sharing and caring each other. Hate for me means feeling unhappy with present condition. Everyone must have different definition about love and hate. You may share with me in this writing about how you express love and hate. If we eager to share with someone else, that can define as a love. Sometimes, we don’t realize how deep the meaning of love itself. If we married with our boyfriend/girlfriend that we’re really like, was that called love? The answer could be YES or NO, it’s uncertain. It depends on the voice of our heart to give the meaning of marriage with someone that we choose as our lifetime partner. If this relationship is fulfilling with caring each others, sharing equally, reducing our ego to avoid unwanted fighting, this thing can called love, and means that we’re really love someone that we’re chosen to accompany us for a lifetime. But, as balance in this world, God also create hate feeling. Hate was created as a control for us in relationship. That hate feeling sometimes made us thinking, is we really unhappy with this condition, or maybe is it only we push our ego too high that made us unpleasant in making relationship with others? Again, the answer is uncertain. If we don’t like present condition, change it. Change by listening your heart about what can you gives to someone else. Listen also about love that you can give to somebody else. If we’re still insist upon our will in giving a good meaning in relationship, please use word “LOVE” as your password in taking relationship. But, if you want people won’t like you anymore, “HATE” might be a good word to choose. Friends, I’m really sure that nobody in this world, really like being not accepted with others. So, why we must keep this evil thing called HATE in our heart, unless you want to live alone in this world. If we say “I Love You”, please emphasize these words by share and care in every way of action. So, everybody will give you a feed back by saying “I Love You Too”….